Generative artificial intelligence chatbots are now widely used to draft dating profiles, decode messages and propose replies, and experts say that represents a major change in how people negotiate early relationships.Logan Ury of Hinge and Erika Ettin say chatbots should act as a supportive wingman rather than a ghostwriter, warning users not to copy chatbot messages or manipulate profile images.Jules White at
Vanderbilt University and
Matt Shumer recommend precise prompts and chatbots that ask clarifying questions, while
Liesel Sharabi of
Arizona State University warns of bias and advises treating chatbot advice as one data point among many.