Melissa Gilbert is leaving her Upper West Side apartment after eight years as her husband, Timothy Busfield, is indicted in New Mexico on four counts of criminal sexual contact with a child linked to incidents alleged while he worked on the Fox series The Cleaning Lady.Busfield, 69, has pleaded not guilty, argues prosecutors suppressed evidence and points to an independent Warner Bros. review the defense says found no wrongdoing; he turned himself in earlier this year and was released without bail.Gilbert, 62, posted photos of packed boxes, thanked neighbors and said she will live full time upstate while a status hearing is set later this month and a tentative trial date is scheduled for May several years from now.